If you have always distracted and feel misunderstood, and therefore had difficulties at work and in their relationships, which could be a s...
If you have always distracted and feel misunderstood, and therefore had difficulties at work and in their relationships, which could be a sign , that you a disorder of learning of adults . While the problem likely is it has since I was a kid, you fight your way to becoming an adult, you can look that something is wrong. So what could it be?
"Some of the common learning disabilities in adulthood are dyslexia, ADHD, dyscalculia, dysgraphia deficits and treatment," Dr. Shelly Chandler, mental health counselors and licensed provost of Beacon College in Florida , said - he tumult. "All [the] learning problems can affect home and professional life. "If you think one of those questions that Chandler was plagued by strikes a psychologist contacted experiencing learning difficulties. He or she can determine disability exactly then teaches to mechanisms of adaptation .
Depending on their disability, it is likely to be taught how to structure your life - with lists, reminders and daily schedule. You can get a coach. And you might better be afraid of the handle also help medications available, Chandler said is common to people with the learning disabilities . read on for some sign that this is the best way for you.
1. feel a little often lost
It can be very frustrating if your achievements do not match what you feel capable of doing. "A great talent, but talent Many people used with learning disabilities often because they never give up to feel lost," Chandler said.
2. It is difficult for you to get jobs
If you are struggling with a learning disability underlie can do the simple things - like getting through the workday - it feels extremely difficult. "At work can not be held diagnosed adult of his employees, who can not do things together," Chandler said. "They may have known statements and told them that looked so bright, but they are difficult to do things. "
3. has trouble connecting with people sometimes
Yes, you are a very nice person with good intentions. But thanks to his disability, others simply can not see. "Can lead [his] disability [the] forget discuss procrastinate, procrastinate, angry, and not go on," Chandler said. And although it is not their fault, others can not detect these features.
4. You have a Despistado
One of the biggest signs of a learning disability is a short attention span, often a sign of ADHD . It can affect the work to fight against the problems I could already mentioned. make you look a little lack of concentration can also be down, however, and that can derail their relationship.
5. Many of their relationships are Tumultuous
Whether to go with friends, family or significant others who seem to have a tendency to where they just can not keep a healthy relationship. And that's a very common problem for people with learning disabilities. As Chandler said, "If the disability is not diagnosed and understood that family members may believe that the disabled person is the choice of their behavior. Failed marriage is a common result. "
6. They are angry and do not know why
a frustrating affair as a learning disability in terms of, you can feel all day bored and restless. And that, among others, may be angry beaten. "Rage of the behaviors can be observed in adults with learning disabilities," Chandler said. "You can have less inhibition and can get more angry faster than others. "
7. You have struggled with low self - even anxiety or depression
O well, you may have had three. "In general, adults with learning disabilities ... side effects such as low self-esteem, anxiety and / or depression have mental problems," Chandler said. This could be due to some felt the shame and frustration his slue relationships and failed jobs, and that it is not its potential.
8. You have the use of alcohol or drugs
If you turn to drugs as a defense mechanism, take note. "Someone who has often been blamed for the chaos of the family is struggling with a learning disability, and was the scapegoats at work and at home," Chandler said. they have "Year after year experienced negativity pulls her self-esteem down. The cycle was caught in the person can do the consumption of alcohol or drugs for relief. "
9. Do you have - the "bad" or "bad" for mathematics read
With learning difficulties such as dyslexia , which can affect the reading and writing or dyscalculia , which can affect your ability to do math, you can believe that you are stupid. But this is not the case. "It is important to realize that learning problems have nothing to do with intelligence," clinical psychologist Dr. Mayra Mendez, PhD , says the sum. "A person can be very well evaluated on an IQ test to struggle with learning difficulties, but still have difficulty working with numbers that spell accurately and understanding of reading passages. "
10. You have a difficult time getting
Lose forever? Having difficulty in distinguishing between left and right? As a clinical psychologist and host of Radio Dr. Joshua Klapow said, "you have bad or instructions, even if you are sure to understand. "And that can be a sign of a disability such as ADHD.
11. They are not easy to be confused
Because things are not easy for you (to keep such attention in a position) often feel overwhelmed. How Klapow says this may be particularly sensitive in noisy situations, animated and annoying. It is also likely feel overwhelmed when immediate instructions "too long", which glaze sound and forgotten.
Sounds familiar? Then it could mean that you have a learning disability in adulthood. If you think this may be the case, certainly send to a psychologist . They can tell you what happened, and help you learn ways to cope better.
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